Give in Memory

Celebrate a cherished life by extending kindness to others.

A gift in memory of someone special can be a meaningful tribute, honouring their life while helping people facing hardship and uncertainty.

Every action of support matters. Choose how to help.

01 / UNDERSTAND THE CAUSE

Why your support matters

Memorial giving offers families and friends a way to remember someone through compassionate action. It can be private or shared, immediate or arranged on a meaningful date, and should always reflect personal wishes and sensitivities.

THE HEART OF THIS PAGE

  • Remember thoughtfully  —  Choose a tribute that feels right for you.
  • Honour personal values  —  Connect giving with qualities you admired.
  • Include others gently  —  Invite others without pressure or expectation.
  • Offer lasting kindness  —  Turn remembrance into support for another person.

Four connected priorities

Remember thoughtfully

Choose a tribute that feels right for you.

Honour personal values

Connect giving with qualities you admired.

Include others gently

Invite others without pressure or expectation.

Offer lasting kindness

Turn remembrance into support for another person.

Help turn concern into positive action.

02 / WAYS TO TAKE PART

Choose a way to help

There are several appropriate ways to be involved. Choose an option that matches your interests, availability and circumstances.

Make a memorial gift

Give once in someone’s name.

Mark a significant date

Choose a birthday, anniversary or special occasion.

Invite family and friends

Share a tribute link if they would like to participate.

Celebrate a life

Organise a respectful gathering or activity.

Leave a future legacy

Explore a charitable gift through estate planning.

Keep remembrance personal

There is no required amount or public announcement.

MAKE IT YOUR OWN

A positive contribution need not be large or complicated. Begin with a manageable step, be clear about its purpose, and ask how you can act responsibly and respectfully.

03 / ILLUSTRATIVE CASE STUDY

A story to imagine

This scenario is a fictional illustration of a possible need and response. It is not a testimonial, documented beneficiary case, or claim of achieved impact.

A quiet tribute from a family

Imagine siblings wanting to celebrate the kindness of a parent who valued helping others. They choose a modest memorial donation and share a note explaining why the cause matters. The gesture provides a meaningful focus for remembrance without suggesting that giving is expected of anyone.

What this example can teach us

Start by listening

Understand the needs expressed before deciding on a response.

Protect dignity

Avoid assumptions, sensationalism or unapproved personal details.

Support an appropriate response

Contribute through safe, organised and accountable activities.

Be part of the response.

04 / YOUR NEXT STEPS

From intention to action

A little preparation helps keep contributions meaningful, respectful and sustainable.

A SIMPLE FOUR-STEP ROUTE

01   Decide how you would like to remember the person.

02   Choose whether the gift will be private or shared.

03   Use a confirmed official donation method.

04   Share memorial details only with permission.

Good practice to keep in mind

Be clear about purpose

Explain what the activity is intended to support.

Keep participation voluntary

No supporter should feel pressured to give time or money.

Use approved channels

Confirm official donation, communication and safeguarding routes.

Ready for the next step?

Helpful questions, clear choices

The most useful support is informed, safe and well matched to the way you want to be involved.

No. A quiet one-off donation can be a complete tribute.

They may, if they choose. Participation should be voluntary.

Ask about privacy preferences when arranging the donation.

There is no deadline or obligation to make a memorial gift.

A thoughtful approach

Keep the focus on people, privacy, choice and practical relevance. The examples on these pages are editorial illustrations, so final public-facing material should be checked against Rescue Mission’s current arrangements before publication.

06 / THE NEXT CHAPTER

Be part of what happens next

Compassion becomes more meaningful when it is linked with a clear, realistic way to act.

ANOTHER ILLUSTRATIVE SCENARIO

Friends honour a shared memory

Imagine former colleagues gathering on the anniversary of a friend’s death. With the family’s agreement, they host a small fundraiser connected to a cause their friend cared about. Their hypothetical tribute combines remembrance, respect and practical generosity.

Three ways forward

Give in memory

Start with a straightforward action that is right for you.

Create a personal tribute

Explore suitable opportunities and agreed next steps.

Explore legacy giving

Help someone else discover a compassionate way to participate.

The next step can begin with you.

The most meaningful tribute is the one that respects your loved one and feels right to you.